Dear Christian friends,
I think most of you know about the parakeet, which is a pet bird you can
teach to talk. But I wonder if you know about the paradox. What is a
paradox? The paradox is not a bird or an animal, and it is not a box or
anything like that. The paradox is a statement, a kind of sentence that
seems to be contradictory, but nevertheless is true. Let me give you an
example. St. Paul said, "When I am weak, then am I strong." (2 Cor.12:10)
Here Paul seems to contradict himself, and to say a lie. We ask, "How
can a weak person be strong?" If you are not a Christian you will not
understand this paradox (contradictory saying). But the Christian should
understand if the Christian knows what God said to Paul before Paul said
this paradox. Paul had been weak with a certain sickness, and he prayed
to God to be healed. But God refused to heal him and God explained to
him, "My grace is sufficient for you: for My strength is made perfect in
weakness." (2 Cor. 12:7-9) That is true, and we see it often in
Christians who have weak bodies, but strong faith and spirit.
In our text Jesus says two important paradoxes to His disciples. They
are the two great paradoxes of life. Everyone should know that and give
attention to them, Your soul depends on knowing them.
The Two Great Paradoxes Of Life
We read these two great paradoxes in verse 25 of our text. Jesus said to
His disciples: "Whoever wants to save his life shall lose it: and who-
ever wants to lose his life for Me shall save it."
Let's look carefully now at the first paradox. Jesus warns, "Whoever
wants to save his life shall lose it." (25a) Jesus seems to contradict
Himself here, What does Jesus mean? Is it wrong when someone wants to
keep and save his life? Today people spend much time and money to have
and keep their health. We spend money for good and right foods. We spend
money for doctors and dentists. Many spend much time exercising, running
or jogging. We don't want to become sick and lose our life. We want to
have a healthy, comfortable, good and long life. Is that desire wrong?
NO! That is a natural desire and God wants us to be careful and protect
our health and our life. God doesn't want us to be careless or reckless,
Well, what does Jesus mean here when He says, "Whoever wants to save his
life shall lose it?"
Jesus means those people who are selfish and do not want to share with
the poor and needy. Jesus means those people who live only for themselves
and for their good times and pleasures. Jesus means those people who re-
fuse to risk their life to be a policeman, or a fireman or a soldier.
Jesus means those church members who join the church and just come to
church and sit and never help support the church or help do the church
work. Jesus means those people who do not really love God or their
neighbors. Jesus means those people who always want to save their money
and save their time and save their life so they can have a good life and
lots of pleasures. Jesus told the story about the rich man and poor
Lazarus. The rich man had fine clothes, lived in a beautiful house, had
many servants and banquets every day. Lazarus with sores was brought
and laid at his gate begging. The rich man refused to help poor Lazarus.
When the rich man died he went to hell. (Luke 16:19-23) That's what
Jesus means when He says, "Whoever wants to save his life shall lose it."
You perhaps can save your life and keep it here on earth and have a good
time and lots of pleasures, but you can lose it in hell. That is Jesus'
warning to all of us with this first paradox. Let us think about it and
be sorry and confess our sins.
Then let us look carefully at the second paradox, which is opposite the
first. Jesus says, "Whoever wants to lose his life for Me shall save it."
Who wants to lose his life? Do you? Do I? No! We don't want to lose
our life. That is against our nature. Our nature is to save and protect
our life and keep it as long as we can. Our nature is to be selfish and
keep and improve our own life even if we must hurt or destroy someone
else's life. That is why we often cheat, steal, rob and kill or refuse
to help the hungry, the poor and the needy.
Who can help us? Who can change our selfish, natural heart and make us
willing to lose our life to help our neighbor? Only Jesus can help us.
Notice that Jesus says, "Whoever loses his life for Me." We should lose
our life for Jesus' sake. This a Christian wants to do. Why? Because
Jesus first lost His life for us. Jesus gave up His life for us on the
cross. (v. 21) Now we gladly give up our life for Him, loving Him and
serving Him and our neighbor. Jesus helps us to turn away from the old
selfish life and take up the new life pleasing to Him. St. Paul says it
very clearly and beautifully: "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless
I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live
I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and gave Himself for me."
(Galatians 2:20)
Only Jesus can help us give up the old life and take up the new life.
Therefore we must daily look to Jesus for help. Daily confess that we
are sinners and selfish. Daily look to Jesus on the cross for His love,
mercy and forgiveness. Daily with His help try to live the new life
serving God and our neighbor. In this way we lose our life for Jesus and
save it for eternal life in heaven.
So give attention to these two great paradoxes of Jesus': "Whoever wants
to save his life shall lose it; and whoever wants to lose his life for
Me shall save it.
AMEN